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Monday, January 24, 2011

38 Weeks!




WEEKS: 38 weeks!
BABY'S SIZE: 19.5 inches, 6.8 lbs, the baby is the size of a small watermelon....small (ya right! : )
TOTAL WEIGHT GAIN: 35 lbs now which I blame on laziness!  
SLEEP: Sleeping really great with a few bathroom interruptions.  
MOVEMENT: She is really liking her new space and kicking up a storm now!  
SYMPTOMS: Herniated belly button, the waddling has started and constant bathroom trips are taken everyday! 
WHAT I MISS: Fitting nicely in my scrubs and not having them fall underneath my belly.  
CRAVINGS: Salty and sweet anything!  
MATERNITY CLOTHES: Here and there but mostly just wearing comfy shorts/sweats after work.
WHAT I AM LOOKING FORWARD TO:  A quiet weekend with no plans!  
PROGRESS: Today's appt I am sitting at 4 cm dilated, 80% effaced and she is at 0 station.

We had a fabulous weekend of lazy mornings, snuggles and putting a few last minute touches up in 'her' room!  Riley wore big boy unders all weekend and his cute little cotton underwear stayed dry ALL WEEKEND LONG!!!  We even braved him wearing them out to eat and the poor boy didn't want to wet his pants and dragged us to the restroom 4 times in an hour!  He earned himself a sundae and lot's of high 5's!  We celebrated Katie's b-day on Sunday and I even squeezed in the best pedicure I have ever had!  We are getting super excited and I am patiently counting down my last 9 days of work for the next 12 weeks!  The paintings I ordered for 'her' room should be here this week and I can't wait to show you how cute they turned out!  I also hit up Old Navy and got the cutest clothes for under $2 an item!  It is super weird to shop the little boys and little girls section but even D started getting into it when he saw the deals to be had (ha)!  Here's to enjoying the heat wave we are experiencing today!  




Thursday, January 20, 2011

Relief...

comes at a price!  A sore, time consuming, anxiety ridden price but one well worth taking!  We checked into L and D on Tuesday and Derrick quickly checked right out-puking as he left!  Poor D was so sick and really wanted to be there for his girls so he made the trip down but only lasted about 5 minutes before he was vomitting and curled over in pain.  I sent him home (and am glad he made it in his condition) and played the waiting game on my own.
They hooked 'us' up to the fetal monitors and for 3 hours nothing happened.  There were 2 Mommies on the floor delivering that took the Dr's attention so I was bumped back and didn't actually have the procedure until 1:30 after an IV was started and an injection given.  I realized that I should probably check in with D and his frantic text's made me feel awful about waiting so long to check my phone! 
After the injection I felt miserably jittery and my heart was pounding which were the appropriate side effects but after you add that to 3 hours of waiting and no husband I thought I was going to lose my mind.  Dr Schaeffer was so nice though and my nurse Cindy and medical resident Maggie were absolute life savers.  Dr Schaeffer used the U/S machine to determine the position in which baby girl was laying and Maggie kept the doppler on my girl nearly the entire time and her heartbeat never waivered.   The Dr was able to successfully turn her by picking up her back end and then gently pushing her head at the same time and almost immediately she flipped herself back to breech.  It looked like she was going to break through my belly and it made me almost want to vomit watching her in slow motion turning back to breech knowing that we would try to turn her again...
(to be honest it hurts and is very uncomfortable but I kept focused and had a great support team and a very kind Dr.)
The second time the Dr was able to get a better grip on her back end and move her (ever so painfully slow) and she held her head down for a few minutes and finally our girl miraculously stayed down after figuring out she had so much more kick room when she was positioned the correct way!  I was so relieved it was over and we just stared at her on U/S as she happily kicked away and got used to her new space.
I was hooked up for another hour to the monitors and finally was discharged at 3:00 completely worn out and tired.  I was shocked at how much more comfortable it was to have her in the head down position-I have been uncomfortable and it has been almost painful when she moves and it had a lot to do with her being in the breech position (I thought I was just working too hard and carrying around a 2 year old too often).
I came home starving after fasting for 18 hours and exhausted but a personal pan pizza and cheesy bread helped give me some much needed energy-D on the other hand looked horribly sick and was miserable.
I slept pretty hard that night and very comfortably and made it to work on Wednesday a little sore but grateful that everything was back to 'normal'.
I just got home from a biophysical U/S and another UAR (uterine artery ratio) and she is perfect.  She is so active and still in the head down position (Hallelujah!) and although the UAR is still high they are not at all worried about it after they measured her breathing rate, heartbeat and movement for 30 minutes.  It was a great U/S and it was fun to just sit back and watch her move about without them having to take measurements.
WE ARE SO HAPPY and SO READY TO MEET HER NOW!  Hopefully we continue to avoid a c-section and everything progresses naturally.
We now are just patiently waiting and excitedly anticipating the near future.
Thank you so much for all the texts/phone calls/emails/prayers and posts of encouragement.  It really meant a lot to us! and take it from us-try not to 'google' everything because every situation is different and other people's opinions can make you more anxious than you need to be!

Tuesday, January 18, 2011

Anxiety

In ultrasound yesterday we found out that the baby is breech and that my UAR (uterine artery rate) was high by a bit but after waiting to speak to the Dr the radiologist called and said it should be fine and that we would check it again next week.  However the breech part still concerned me and of course about an hour after the appt our Dr. called to say that she just found out the baby was breech and that she took the liberty of scheduling an external cephalic version on Tuesday at 10:30.  She explained that I would be given some muscle relaxants and that it can be painful but could work if I want to avoid a c-section and I/we really want to avoid a c-section.  She did say that because I already had a high UAR that the version could cause more stress on the baby and cause that number to go higher and in that case the baby would be born c-section emergently and immediately.  Of course this all went down on an evening when D was sitting an appt in Eagan so I took to the bathroom and cried and cried.  I had not expected a breech presentation.  I had expected the same (I would take near same) delivery as when Riley entered the world.  It was nothing short of perfection.  I am/was gladly looking forward to my water breaking, contractions starting, walking the long hallways with my hubby, the epidural numbing, pushing and sweating until finally a slippery little one was placed on my chest as D and I cried in awe.  We rocked labor and delivery and had no doubt that we would again but I guess our path is a little different this time so we will check into L & D at 10:30 today and pray to God that this external version works with little to no pain/bruising and that she stays head down.  If it works we will have another U/S next Monday to check the uterine artery rate and to make sure she is still head down.  If it doesn't work we will be scheduling a c-section with the Dr who does the version.  I am nervous, D is a wreck of nerves, we didn't sleep well last night, I cried with Riley who wiped my tears away and handed me his lovie to help comfort me, I cried with D, we discussed our options, we googled everything, we finally gave up and had ice cream and french fries while we watched crap TV.  We are going to just ask lots of questions before the procedure and hopefully go home with happy, relieved smiles to enjoy a huge late lunch since I can't eat anything for 8-10 hours before the procedure!  OUCH!   If it doesn't work out then we will come to terms with a c-section and pray for a lower UAR level next week.  In the end the only thing that matters is that our girl is healthy...so here we go baby girl you certainly are quite dramatic already!  It's funny that only about 3% of all babies end up backwards and ours is quite possibly going to be one of that small number.  Makes us second guess not naming her differently then previously thought because of the meaning 'ill omen' or 'unlucky'.  She just might be trying to tell us something here! 

Monday, January 17, 2011

37 Weeks! Full Term! : )

PREGNANCY HIGHLIGHTS:




WEEKS: 37 weeks!
BABY'S SIZE: 19 inches, 6.5 lbs, the baby is the size of a stalk of swiss chard!? Seriously where do they come up with this crap!?
TOTAL WEIGHT GAIN: 33 lbs now which I wholeheartedly blame on the Holiday season ; )
SLEEP: Hips are pretty sore/loose now so sleep is only happening when I am laying on my left side.  MOVEMENT: She is exploiting my herniated belly button and kicking the crap out of it...OUCH!
SYMPTOMS: Herniated belly button and the waddling has started! 
WHAT I MISS: A steady gait with hips that don't feel like they could crumble : )
CRAVINGS: Being skinny again! : )
MATERNITY CLOTHES: Here and there but mostly just wearing comfy shorts/sweats after work.
WHAT I AM LOOKING FORWARD TO: Our ultrasound this afternoon and then girls night on Saturday with an ice cream buffet, munchies and Eclipse!  I haven't seen these girls for awhile and can't wait!  Plus the boys are going up for a quick (and probably the last until D-day) fishing trip to meet G'ma T's new dog, Huntley!
PROGRESS: Today's appt I am sitting at 3 cm dilated, 50% effaced and she is still at -1 station. 

We stayed pretty active this weekend with a fun family night out at Pizza Flame (where Riley danced happily as he devoured his pizza and cheesy bread), a DQ visit and then back home to watch Despicable Me.  Cute movie and fun family of 3 memories.  We also headed down to the Sportsmens Show at the Excel on Saturday and Riley got more 'owies' (lures) that he was so happy about!  Seriously all that boy needed for Christmas was a few lures and some fishing line because that is all he does all night long.  We watercolor paint alot and when I fill up his little cup with water for the paints he without a doubt has to pretend to ice fish from the Dixie for a couple of minutes.  He is so creative in his play and after making him a fort on Friday I had to sit and 'deer hunt' with him for over 35 minutes.  Let me tell you that a small fort + hard flooring + nearly 37 weeks pregnant left this Momma feeling very sore so we had to move onto flashlight hide and seek which is another one of his faves.  What the heck did we do/talk about before our little squirrel came along?  Only 14 days left of work and I will not miss driving in the nuisance snows every other day!