Three times the fun now added!









Saturday, November 26, 2011

Turkied out

A little misleading, the title that is.  I am not in the least bit turkied (spelling?) out.  We ate some of the juiciest, most tender, delicious turkey yesterday that I am completely looking forward to again for lunch but in every other aspect of life I am totally wiped out so this is a stream of consciousness type post which might end up sounding more like a brain barf...too far with the barf reference? : )

My Dad had Wednesday off and when he said bye to the kids with a "See you tomorrow for Turkey Day,"  Riley replied with a sing songy "Otay but I do not like turkey."  Cracked everyone up.  Still does since I have a big smile on my face just remembering it.  He is funny.  He never lacks words and seriously is just funny.  Oh and we made these deliciously cute turkeys.


We have peeked in on him before bed a few nights in the last few weeks and because our bedtime keeps creeping up earlier and earlier (ha, like 8:20 kind of early) he seems to be always awake with a big grin on his face so we have invited him to bed with us to snuggle.  As he makes his way into our room with at the minimum 2 puppies and a lovie he repeats "snuddles, snuddles, snuddles." And typing it out does it absolutely no justice.  It's quite possibly the cutest word he has said ever and it made us all laugh so hard the first night he started repeating it that we almost woke Lyssi Lu up!

We had conferences for Riley Monday night.  Yes, they have conferences for 3 year old's.  It was actually really informative and I wouldn't have missed it for the world.  I got a really good chill and goosebumps when Mrs Jane opened up with a prayer for our Riley and his future.  It was humbling to realize that someone else takes an interest in the well-being and spiritual growth of our child.  I had to keep repeating to myself "don't cry, once you start you never stop, don't cry, look at the pictures and smile, ask questions, but don't start crying."  We learned that Riley never stops smiling in class, that he had an issue with another boy over a truck and that they worked it out on their own deciding to share, that he loves storytime and that everything he does is age appropriate.  And that school picture, for a stereo-typical set-up and pose, well it doesn't get much cuter.  My Dad carries it around in his shirt pocket pulling it out to show everyone.  Pride: Check.

Alyssa my lu is continuing to sleep like a little pro.  Bless her heart.  She is waving goodbye and hello with much praise coming from us.  She continues to shy away from crawling and now that I have set up the tree we are just that much more content with the state of her crawling!  She is all girl.  We noticed that when we put dresses on her she just lights up like well, a Christmas tree.  It's so cute.  All smiles, gumming it up extra for Daddy who just thinks she is the prettiest thing he's ever seen.  I took her on a shopping spree and we tried on some Baby Gap dresses and the price-tag was hard to swallow but I put that dress on her (the one) and she was enamored with herself in the mirror.  Guaranteed that if Daddy was there even he would have ignored the price-tag.

Speaking of Daddy and our Lu lu, is there nothing more precious than the love between a girl and her Daddy?
Daddy keeps her safe




Sometimes I still look at her and sit in amazement that the blond-haired blue-eyed beaut is my girl.  Had it not been for the mirror (sorry) during labor I would have thought they switched the babies up or something.  She lourves me something fierce.  She loves Dada and Riley too but it's something-that Mother/Daughter bond.  Girlfriend is perfection.

And she loves her some leaves!
I love Christmas with it's lights, trees, carols and presents.  I love setting up our tree and having my now family of 3 more sitting in awe watching.  D told me no less than 5 times that I am good at that tree business and I ate those words up.  It's a lot of work and hearing a bit of praise and the "wow's" and "ooohs" from those little ones, makes it all oh so worth it.  I love even more the Christmas story and the Christian music.  I heard "The First Noel" on the radio for the first time of the season driving to work this week and the combination of my favorite song, the dark and beautiful sky and my tiredness brought tears to my eyes.  I love this time of year.

We leave for Vegas in 19 days.  Be like WHOA.  I am not nervous.  D is a darn near basket case bout leaving those kids of ours.  I am sure I will be all weepy and nervous but for now I am just looking forward to the unknown of what one does when they have no kids for 3.5 consecutive days!  Seriously, what did we do before kids!?  We have never been away from the kids for more than a night so challenge this will be but I think it will be good for everyone.

Work is so draining right now.  We are short like 7-8 people short.  It's quite miserable and the old "be thankful you have a job" phrase is just annoying currently.  Exciting news is a raise in the near future for a change in job titles (across the board for me and all my co-workers because we are all cross trained in the lab) and a few new benefits for the 2012 year including $20 off to a gym and something else that I got excited about but can't for the life of me remember.

We had family pictures taken for Christmas and I loved the photog, her in home studio and her style.  She has one of the classiest eyes for shots and seriously the best editing eye I have seen.  I can't imagine any of our shots coming out great though because I was too worried about Lyssi punching Riley and Riley giving a cheesy smile to remember to smile myself so we will have to see.

I already have Lyssi Lu's first b-day planned out, down to the invitation and the decor.  I have had this vision since she was in-utero.   I also have Riley's 4th b-day planned out.  It's amazing how my brain works as I run through words in my head that rhyme with 2, 3, 1 etc.

Our children have started playing together.  Riley hands her a toy and she laughs and hands it back.  Riley tickles her and 'wrestles' with her and they laugh and chitter chatter back and forth.  We are the creepers tip-toeing around making sure not to interrupt their special time and sneaking lenses in and around corners because it is caute!



We finished the last HP movie and the only word that comes to mind is epic.  We put the kids to bed early, shut off all the lights and sat down and enjoyed a whole movie with zero interruptions.  We went to bed at 10:30 and was awoken by the children at 7:08, it was therapeutic all that adult time and sleep.  Being that I can't keep my eyes open at night it was nice to know I don't have some sort of disease or worse narcolepsy because I am pretty sure I could fall asleep anywhere the last few weeks.

This picture cracks me up.  My Dad asked me numerous times if I got pictures of all the mums this year and I did, except the baby girl didn't care for my many attempts.  Case in point...

See those colors Dad?!


We ate at Olive Garden recently and have realized that 90% of the time we have horrible service.  This last time we waited 18 minutes for anyone/someone to come to our table.  18 minutes with 2 small children can be like an eternity.  Then when we finally got our salads our dinners came out at the same time!  It was good eating but probably we will be thinking twice about it next time.

I feel lighter, maybe even full of more energy now that I got all that off my chest.  Preserving these memories so that years down the road we can remember the important stuff like in 2012 we saved a combined $40 off at the Y and so forth.  : )  Nighty Night!

Thursday, November 17, 2011

Pinch me, please

I had one of those moments last weekend where I must have looked a fool to everyone else but I just couldn't help it. 

Riley started swimming lessons, the real ones where the parents sit on the sidelines while the kids plunge in to 'soak' and learn.  I looked around and saw various parents filling in the benches and starting to read books or play on their super cool smartphones and I looked down and saw our bag full of towels, a change of clothes, my super un-cool texting phone, my book and my camera.  I just couldn't bring myself to sit down and read.  I just couldn't bring myself to take my eyes off of my Riley. 

I was the parent who stood the whole time, absorbing the moments. I mean really, do you see the brown eyed, brown haired, can't-stop-smiling, I swear was just a baby over there!?  I wanted to explain that it was our first swimming lessons and that he's my first baby but I don't think anyone even noticed that I was standing at the edge of the pool. I was far enough away that Riley didn't have to wave at me every 2 minutes but close enough to again admire his long lashes that looked even more brilliant wet, close enough to hear him squeal as his hand shot up in the air signaling his readiness to try the next skill, close enough to get tears in my eyes not because of the chlorination filling the area but because this is what I always imagined when I dreamed of motherhood. 

I wanted to call D and tell him that not only did Riley get in with zero trepidation (D was thinking Riley would hesistate and probably not get in at all) but that it was mesmerizing to watch and that I could hardly contain my pride but I seriously couldn't pull myself away not even for a quick phone call. 

This was the part of parenting that I wasn't overly familiar with.  The parenting where they let go of your hand and walk forward without you and you just hope that no one hurts them, that they don't get scared and that they remember their manners and that their Mommy is waiting for them.  It was absolutely surreal.  I can do the baby/toddler stage with my eyes closed.  (Not to say it's easy or a piece of cake for me but many years of constant babysitting and now having 2 kids I understand it, they have a need-you meet it)  This was a new feeling, one you can't really prepare for.   After parenting him for 3.5 years and realizing that (just about) everything goes through Mommy beforehand this was the first time where for 30 minutes he didn't need me.  He didn't need me to splash with him or show him how to float.  He didn't need me to fuss over water getting in his eyes.  He didn't need me for support or strength.  He was just a little boy filled up to the brim with excitement, looking all grown up and listening intently to instructions.  I don't get to watch him at preschool.  There's not a two-sided mirror to stare through and see how your child interacts with others when you're not around (although that would be AWESOME!) and my experiences just this last Feb-May with him at 2's with parents school didn't give me a good look at him since he had me the whole time and rarely wanted to me to not always be right there with him playing or creating whatever was on the schedule that day.  This was my first real experience with myself and my Riley in our new roles as supporter and quite literally swimmer. 

This is what I always imagined when I was younger.  My children diving head first into life and taking with them the lessons and confidence we have instilled in them.  Taking on new challenges without hesitation and with enthusiasm.  It was amazing.  Big kid, happy meal afterwards kind of amazing. 

And just think...this is only the beginning!







No fear here!

Riley's first time singing in front of church...he isn't much of a singer!  

Our halloween cowboy...is it wrong that I want to pencil that stache in everyday?




Tuesday, November 8, 2011

Alyssa Marie: 9 months


9 months young our girl is.  It hit me rather hard yesterday after her well child check that next time we see the good Dr she will be one years old!  : (  I am not ready to say goodbye to the baby in her and I will cherish every last bottle, the chubby baby hands and legs, the smell of baby on her and the way she needs me so for everything.  

Sweet girl is just baby-licious and we love her so.


A peek at Lyssi Lu 9 months:
*She is drinking 4-6 oz bottles everyday.
*She loves every kind of solid we give her including the green veggies now.
*She loves cheerios, Baby Mum Mums and anything else her chubby fingers can pick up.
*She is sleeping the same from about 7:15-6:30-7:00 a.m.  She is good to us!
*She is still not crawling.  We aren't worried about it.  She is strong and capable but apparently a bit lazy or just not ready yet.  It's kind of nice to put her somewhere and know that she is staying still and out of trouble for the time being.
*She loves to dance (see video in previous post)!  Girlfriend has moves!
*I want to remember her big nose scrunched up grin she gives out.
*Size 3 diapers and 9 month old clothes.
*Weight: 17 lbs 4 ozs (Riley at this age was 16 lbs 12 ozs).*Fun Fact: At 12 months Riley was only 17 lbs 13 ozs...it appears little sister will be a bit bigger!
*Length: 27.75 inches (Riley was 1 inch longer at 9 months).
*So content to play with a box of toys while she watches everything around her, especially her big brother.
*She could watch Riley all day long.  He is the greatest entertainment for her.  
*She takes 2 naps and sleeps so good in the waterbed at Nana's house.  We really want a baby watercrib invented.  Both of our kids slept so soundly and comfortably in that thing!
*She waves when you say 'hi' or 'bye' now!  : )
*She puckers up and makes kissie noises at us.
*She is so happy and just loves life.




She just got over her 5th or so cold...see the cold remnants around her nose? 


She will put anything in her mouth: See above and below.




We love you to the moon and back baby girl!  Happy 9 months!  

Sunday, November 6, 2011

Smart snaps

I love having D's smartphone around...it takes pretty good pictures and awesome video so when I don't remember my huge camera it is the perfect memory maker/keeper and I thought it about time to share the last few weeks of the "smart snaps".

Corn pit fun at the maze and fall festival!  Bonus:  Only 2 kernels of corn made it into the washing machine/dryer!

Last river fishing fun with Daddy and they catch a pretty sweet looking fish.

We let Riley cash in his piggy money and when I asked if he knew what toy he wanted he replied "actooly Mommy, I not need any toys but I need muskie wures instead.  Can I buy new muskie wures?"  Ha!  The Dick's people thought it hilarious that our 3 year old was buying new lures instead of toys!

bedhead bottle smile : )

I think she knows she's cute eh?!

A recent shopping trip to Target and these kids had so much fun sitting together and holding hands...does it look like she likes shopping or what!?

and it wouldn't be complete without out little lady as a 'brick house'!!! : )  don't forget to scroll down and pause the playlist so you can jam out with Lyssi!  

Wednesday, November 2, 2011

Wordlessish Wednesday: A fall pictorial.

We spent a wonderful evening amidst the leaves, warmish fall air and the love and smiles coming from brother and sister.  Ahh, one of my favorite nights with my 2 little loves.
Sharing secrets


Kissie for Lyssi


Simon says grab a leaf

Look excited about the leaf (leaves)

Give momma a half smile

There's the real smile

Throw the leaves and look there's still tons more

And more

Sweet babydoll not at all afraid of the leaves

Seriously she looks like a babydoll


Now get wild!

Oh my gosh, someone spots her Daddy who made a surprise after work appearance!

But still gave momma a little smirk